Hello Deb,
As I read your blog, I felt as if I wrote it, to tell you the truth, I feel that we are being punished for the wrong that somebody else did to us, and this is not right, we were the victims, I have started to gain the weight back, and I now realize why, the way man are looking at me bothers me, I hate it, so when I read your blog, I realized that, I did this for myself, not for anybody else, not to attract man, but to be healthy, to be here for a long time for my grandkids, to enjoy life, I have to forget, and pray that God will forgive them for what they did to us, and with all this said, I'm making a promise to myself, ( I will not gain anymore weight and loose what I have gained, move on with the new me with the best of my abilities and God's help, think of how I can make sure that this doesn't happen to any of my little loved ones around me, and move on with my life) I will keep you posted as to how I'm doing, you have opened my eyes, thank you, and God Bless you!
