I am quite satisfied with my single life. Yes, there are moments where it would be nice to have someone to come home and snuggle with. However, I realize for myself that having a snuggle bunny isn't a strong foundation for a marriage
There is a certain freedom, satisfaction, and growth in being single. I have the ability to expand my life to include a broader range of networks. When I was married, I would not have accomplished my life's dreams. Granted, perhaps, if I had the "right" person, then he would support what I am doing.
As a young person, particularly married even younger.....most of us aren't ready to take on the world. We want comfort and security, a guarantee that life will be fine and we won't be alone. I found out that even married, you can be very much alone.