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Originally Posted by porshh951
then all we are disagreeing on is termanology. I call the above being secure. Allowing for growth change and shifts is all about being secure.
We are saying the same thing I just used a different word.
I think being able to deal with all of the change in personality and physical image is the biggest factor in a relationship, regardless of weither its marriage or any other kind.
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YES, John, I agree with that.
I think the operative word we can all agree on is "change." How people address and deal with change, both those of us who have had wls and those who are our loved ones, is the key factor here.