Ah, sweetie, I have often said, and thought, that the marital relationship is the most difficult one in life. Very complex. And each relationship is different.
The best advice I can offer is not anything odd or deep - communication is the only tool that really, in the end, holds a couple together.
I've been married 3 times, the curent one going on 12 years. It's a work in progress, and both of us are giving 100% now (or close, anyway). That was not always the case. And we are all imperfect people.
Lots of hugs!
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Claire, AKA ClaireBear
4'9.25"
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Lap RNY - 4/9/07. Pre-op, 236 lbs - Current: 106 lbs. - Goal: 126 lbs.
CENTURY CLUB: 11/26/07 Wooo Hoooooo!!!
WAY more than HALF of me, 130 lbs., GONE!!!!!
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