I agree with both Mike and Kelly (JerseyGirl).
My own opinion is that gaining 15 lbs. on a pre-op diet program is a red flag.
I'm not sure what the red flag represents, but it is just not good preparation for what lies ahead. I think it is a time for adjustment and reflection, and in doing so, and anticipating life after wls, it's just a good idea to totally prepare oneself, physically and mentally.
I would never want to hurt anyone in my tone, and I don't think most of us do. We do, however, feel a passion about this subject. And THAT is what can sometimes sound judgmental.
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Claire, AKA ClaireBear
4'9.25"
T-T CRUISE DIRECTOR!
Our T-T 2008 Cruise: http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/soc...ll-aboard.htmll
Lap RNY - 4/9/07. Pre-op, 236 lbs - Current: 106 lbs. - Goal: 126 lbs.
CENTURY CLUB: 11/26/07 Wooo Hoooooo!!!
WAY more than HALF of me, 130 lbs., GONE!!!!!
Size 3 in skinny jeans, Petite Small in all else!
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