gregfromtexas

This is my first time to post, on anything like this. My wife had bypass about 1 1/2 years and has lost a little over 100lbs. This is the great news. My question is about sex after surgery. Prior to surgery everything for us was fine with the exception of her feeling fat. but now the fat is gone and she has discomfort during intercourse, and it seems that air gets inside. She went to her ob/gyn and she had some scare tissue from her epesiautomy (sp)
from giving birth to our son. She had a procedure done to remove this, and we couldn't have intercourse for some time afterwords. Then once we got the clear, she still has discomfort and the air is still a problem, not for me but I guess embarrasing for her. She can not stop obsessing about the size of her breast she went form DD to a B. With that all said her libido has gone to zero, even negative. Is this the norm, or are we special, not sure of what I am asking just need help for our marriage. Any addvise would be greatly appreciated Thanks in advance