Hi, I'm new to the group and have my consultation this afternoon. Reading this thread, I realize that I may be out of my element as I am a single male. The only thing I can say is to realize what you are doing and why you are taking this step. This is the chance to make a change that would improve our lives, physically and emotionally. I applaud you ALL for having the courage to do that. I have talked to various friends about it and some are VERY supportive, some however are less then supportive and seem to think that I need to just diet and exercise and what this has boiled down to for me is, do whats going to be best for you. In the end we are responsible for ourselves which includes our health and happiness. My heart goes out to you and I wish you the very best.
Alton