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Originally Posted by ConstructionChick
I don’t’ know if this has been mentioned by any of the other women but I wish I’d known how getting hit on for the first time in my adult life would make me more insecure about my new (emerging) body.. not less.
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Hej CChick! I am really sad to read your text. Perhaps the hitter is trying to convince him/herself of some misplaced superiority. Do you feel vulnerable because of your stitches etc? Just remember how strong you are to even have had this operation in the first place! Just think of Construction in your name! A new creation is emerging and when a woman is strong, move out of the way! Keep faith in yourself. As you have made it this far, keep your head high and walk tall. Chuck the hitter out if counselling and negotiation do not work. Best of luck and I'll be thinking of you.