California for the most part is an "at will" employement. What that means is you can at anytime quit, or they can at any time fire you without notice. This is how I would look at it from your stand point. 1) he's RUDE! 2) he made promises he didn't keep & 3) you arleady told him at one point you were going to look for a new job. Do you think he would give you a notice if he was going to let you go???

I'm gonna go with no! So go in today and tell him that Friday will be your last day. Stay strong and DON'T let him bully you into staying. You can also continue on with Cobra for just yourself if you need to. Also if you lose bene's at your job it's a qualifying even change so if your husbands company offers insurance you can go on his until you are able to sign up for yours. Hmmm can you tell I do payroll, benefits & some HR.
