Okay, thanks to Cindy and her sausage down the hallway (omg I was trying to eat when I read that), I have to elaborate.
I had my surgery in October 05. My husband at the time was deployed. He came home 5 months later and wanted lots of sex. I really just wasn't in the mood. Yeah it felt better, but honestly, he just didn't know what he was doing, so the satisfaction still wasn't there. You'd think after 10 years, he'd have learned where to touch...but no. I digress.
Anyways, we divorced and I remarried. If anything, I'm much much tighter down there. For me, I'm tighter than I was before I ever had children (and I only pushed one of those out). This may change come April
