I'm only six weeks out... so I feel funny giving you advice... but to be honest this isn't advice because I think you have already done what you need to do.
You have communicated your frustration and that is what always made me feel better. I would look at my husband and just ball asking him why he let me do this to myself... he loved me just the way I was... I loved me just the way I was... why on earth did I do this... and I would feel better a bit later...
25lbs isn't something to sniff at either... and I know you don't want to hear anything about the stalls in weight loss... so I won't bore you with that...
But I promise it will pass... I would have killed to lose 25lbs in three weeks before WLS! shoot that might have taken me three months to lose! haha
It gets better in a few weeks... my turning point was the 5th week... I started feeling human again...
I'm rooting for you Debz...
if you need anything let me know...