Hey all,
I am going in for the operation this friday and my wife is having abandonment issues. She feels that I am going to be "leaving her behind".
Of everyone who is here and married or has a significant other who is larger as well, after your surgery did that help them to lose weight, stay the same, or gain more weight??
I am feeling guilt over this and she is NOT trying to make me feel that way, we were just discussing our feelings (wow what a non-john wayne thing to say huh
) and this has come up a few times but thought she would feel different once the time got closer. And I am that we are expecting a baby in February is not helping her either, just looking for some helpful info for both of us.
Thanks!
J
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Lap RnY August 17,2007
Start\
Current\
Goal
392 ----260 ---?
8.07.07 - 392
8.27.07- 355
9.24.07- 335
10.23.07-312.6
11.8.07- 298.4 - Under 300!!!
11.29.07- 292 - Century club baby!!!
2.4.08- 260 - Down 132lbs
- Don't sweat the petty things,
and don't pet the sweaty things