Awwwwww Zen, honey, you have nothing to be afraid of. Your sarcasm alone can put someone down!
You are just a cutie patootie and I love ya chickie! Don't be afraid. There is a whole big world out there for us to enjoy now! You can get past this. You ARE a very strong person and I KNOW you can do this! Talk it out here whenever you need to. We will always listen and try to help. Sorry, I don't have any wonderful advice here except that I KNOW you are a strong person inside and she just needs to learn how to come out again.