My ex was MO and I was thin when we met. He had WLS and lost 220 lbs. During our marriage, I gained over 100 lbs and it eventually effected my health adversely. I had WLS too.
Seemed like that we were both finally on the same page and able to have a long, healthy marriage.We had a very brief moment where we were both on the same page.
Then his addiction to food switched to alcohol......and I wasn't able to live with his decision for his life. Alcoholism is an illness too and I ended the marriage....beyond the physical illnesses, there was the emotional and spiritual aspects. We were no longer traveling the same path. My love for him is a strong as ever, we simply don't share a life together. You can present options, then decide for yourself what your able to handle.
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