This is just my OWN feelings on the subject~
Lisa ,first talking about this is good for you to do.We care about you here.
Now this is just IMO....
My husband was in a horrific accident three 1/2 years ago..crushed both his legs, could not walk,wheel chair for over a year,walker for the next two,still uses a cane on his bad days.
I went over two years with out having sex.We could n't even do "BILL CLINTON" sex...
I think over the years sex has become less important to me...I think I have had sex maybe four times this year....I am just not interested..I love him and I am not looking for anyone or anything else.Sex does not even cross my mind.<--God honest truth!He is frustrated but I would be devastated if he gave me an ultimatum over sex.
I pray that you can overcome this and things work out for you two,
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 Van 
Lap RNY March,21 2005
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VPA BEAR
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