Hi Lisa. I'm so sorry. I could have written parts of your post. For us it's 12 years and i was obese to start with but I definitely was looking for a guy who wouldn't abuse me and our children, but didn't know it. He's never been a horn dog and never will be, or at least not with an alpha female like me.
I don't have advice but I'll pick up a coffee can and start bailing with you because honey we are in the same boat, more or less. I don't know if we're going to make it.
Not hijacking, just identifying in lieu of advice. Could he be persuaded to explore things that might make him more interested? Not change his personality but tap into what passion does exist?
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