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Originally Posted by AlabamaChick
Beth!!!!!!!! Can you believe it????? Wow! I am so happy for you! Gosh, I hope I do as well as you have. What does your hubby say?????? I'm curious how the spouses handle this. Mine let's me know he notices by making gestures, but never talks about it actually. So, I'm wondering how the verbal type spouses show you they see such a difference. I'm having a problem still see this hugely obese peron in the mirror and in my head. I still worry that I stick out as "the frossly fat one in the crowd".
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Funny you should say that about spouses... mine was very verbal with the compliments and then when I got down passed goal he started talking about how I must be embarrrassed being married to a fat slob and how I'm now going to start dating the pool boy "julio"... on and on and on... Ummm we don't have a pool!?! I finally told him to stop, I love him and honestly he doesn't look all that fat to me. maybe that's part of our/my warped sense of perception regarding my own fat body... when it was fat.
Anyway I must have finally gotten throught to him because when I bought a new phone last week and he programmed the numbers in for me... imagine my surprise when he called me one day and the name with his phone number was Julio.....LOL