Oh my dear botchy, you have come to the right place. There's a plethora of extra skin on this site. When you have extra time, read all of the posts. Those of us who are either at goal or close to goal have lots of angst about our "melting candle" bodies. We can totally relate to your feelings. Basically, the choice for most of us is either melting candle syndrome or looking like a road map of PS scars. Please be assured you've come to the right place. There will be lots of responses to your post.
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