If his need is something such as fulfilling a farm animal fantasy, that's one thing, but seems like if that's what he needs he could just say so? Is there any new information about whether he's involved with someone else?
Have you considered methods of dissipating your sexual energy without requiring another participant, until things can get sorted out? Say, blowfish.com?
Oh and to speak to your specific question, IMO he IS abusive, quite mentally/emotionally abusive. If he could talk with you about what's on his mind and come to the table to work things out it might be a different situation, but as it is he's checked out emotionally and pretty much physically.
Last edited by Polly D; 05-18-2007 at 02:40 PM..
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