jen is right you guys are the best
i am still hanging in there, took pain meds over the weekend and it took a while for them to wear off, i get a kind of hang over, well lets say spacey feeling when on any type of narcotics, lasts for a couple of days, so today i am back to a less spacey self
i got a letter in the mail yesterday for my appt on the 15th, the time i was told and the time on the letter is different - go figure - was i expecting anything less?

anyway, i will phone the number on the letter and confirm exactly when my appt is now - taking all this as it comes, trying not to be angry, one more week! I can do this! I am positive it is gallbladder, and the docs dont feel it is serious now, as "it would have progressed by now."
again thank you all, i had no focus on the weekend couldnt put two words together without slurring them all weekend, but on a positive note, the meds helped the pain

, sorry yous were not updated until sunday, thank you Leah, much appreciated, i am okay, i will be okay and all because yous are so amazing, i have said before and will say again, you all give me strength, i love you all, and yes duckie i wub you!