Wow, with all that stuff going on in your life it's no wonder you're stressing. The biggest thing I can suggest, something I've told Jenny a dozen times; never be afraid to ask for help. It shows strength to admit that you need somebody else's support. If you have friends or family that can help you in some way, reach out to them. The worst they can do is say no.
Stay strong. I've no doubt you've a lot of strength in you considering how much you do.
Just had a thought; maybe the food is what you're doing as "wind-down" time. Find something to keep you busy when you put up your feet. A hobby, video games (in moderation!) or something that you can pick up and relax with for an hour in those rare pauses in your busy life.
Years ago, I had a problem where I would relax between busy spurts by indulging in drugs. Once I realised I had a problem, I forced myself to do something different during that downtime.
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Andrew - Giving Jenny Fuzzies since June 28, 2006 Goals completed:
- First meeting - Oct 5, 2006
- First kiss - 15 minutes later (We were shy...)
- Move in together - September, 2007
- Get married - September 15, 2007
- Make babies - March 25, 2008
Goals left to do:
Figure out how to get back together legally and without fear of repeating what we're going through now
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