It is great to have support from friends and family, but it doesn't matter one way or the other. This surgery is the life saving procedure that will allow you to live again. I was basically a hermit by the time I got my surgery, and only a few people were still in my life, they all left it up to me. They supported whatever decision I made. There was no decision to be made, there was no choice for me, death or life, and here I am, amongst the living.
Good luck to you both,
Traci
|