I have only dated one person since my surgery. When I felt comfortable with him, after about 2 weeks, I told him about my wls. Then when it looked like we were going to become intimate I just told him (about a week before hand) that I had lot's of scars and explained why. I also made it very clear that I was sensitive about them and that I was concerned about how he would react. Well, I think I have met the most marvelous man in the world, because when he saw them he kissed them and thanked me for trusting him enough to share this part of me with him.
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Veronica
Lap 7/6/05
215/155/123
start/goal/current At NORMAL weight!
BMI 39.32/21.8
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