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Old 02-03-2007, 05:17 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by lealphachienne
I'm sorry...call me shallow...I wouldn't want to be with a man that had a lot of loose skin either....(though I was married to one).....I would expect to be with someone that was similar to me with similar goals and desires. Perhaps weight/looks is just one part of it all. I was trim and thin when I married my MO husband...and we just never met on the same level......even after his bypass surgery (he lost 240), then I was too fat and it was role reversal.....anyways.......I'm all for PS and had plenty done fo myself....still have to explain the scars though.....
you're not shallow you're human. A great body is not only a gift to yourself but, also to you're partner. Physical attraction is just as important as emotional in a relationship....especially from a guys point of view.

I will be having PS for that very reason. I would never ask or require something from my partner that I am not willing to give them myself. I won't have any sagging skin on my body as a gift to her as much as it is for myself. I would expect the very same.

Another reason why I don't see myself dating for a very long time.
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