I don't think it's being shallow Marie.

I feel the same.
Stephanie, I know you probably don't want more surgery - but is that a possibility at least?
I have a good friend that inpired me to make this change who went from a 24 to a 2. Yes, a size 2 but she had the more drastic DS surgery so two years out ... she is still losing weight.
She looks great with her clothes on ... and her hubby doesn't mind the loose skin - but she does. She just got a huge tummy tuck becuase there was so much extra skin, she had to wear loose clothes so her skin could hang down.
My plan is to workout like a mad woman toning my body while I lose the weight BUT if I need it .... I WILL have PS.
It's something to consider.
