When I was pre-op I was big all over but I was even bigger in the hip and leg area. I still have "junk in the trunk" and I find that the elliptical at the gym is helping that. I have lost one inch on my hips in the last week and a half and I think it is due to that.
Men lose fast we all know that dont compare yourself to him! You are doing great! Just work out the areas that you want to improve and focus on them more.