I had surgery almost 6 weeks ago now and including the pre-op diet, I've lost 52 lbs. I'm already back down to a weight where I feel comfortable dating again (not that I didn't before, just not as much) and I've got my first "I'm back guys, watch out!" date on Friday.
I don't know what to do about telling guys about the surgery! I thought it would be a good idea to get it out of the way, but my best friend disagreed so vehemently that she took a poll at her office and every single guy she asked said, "NO WAY, do not tell a guy that until you've been dating him awhile. He'll wonder how fat you were before the surgery!"
So here's my question...when do you think I should tell a date about the surgery? How do I explain the fact that I don't eat if/when we go to dinner? My friend says I should just say I'm on a diet.
Advice please!
