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Old 11-15-2006, 10:57 AM   #10 (permalink)
Zenomia
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Rod,
That was so nicely said and well written. You wear your heart on your sleeve and I was touched by it. I am pretty sure that you described the thoughts of most everyone having RNY, male and female, as your feelings about the attention can go both ways. Just try to remember when your out and about and oodles of women are goggling after you...they aren't all BAD. Some of them might be insecure, vulnerable, and lonely too. Maybe in the hoards, there are women that are drawn to your loneliness, your vulnerability, not just your smashing good looks. Try to keep an open mind... I 'see' a real hottie in the pics, but you can see just as easily the shy guy underneath...you just have to find a woman who can see beyond the packaging. (Yes, they are out there... )
Oh and by the way...you do look better when you smile, I don't care if you agree...your smile is beautiful!!
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