Hi Melanie;
Your finding out that life happens. Yes, it is tough what your going through, but you know what? It won’t last! I can guarantee that. I’m not going to spout a bunch of tired and worn out cliche’s abut how life will get better - it just will!
You are discovering you’re stronger than you think you are. Melanie, your doing great, and thing’s will get better. As for your son, don’t worry what your stupid sister-in-law and the family thinks. The main thing is getting your son the medical attention and help he needs. There will always be time later to set your in-law and others straight. Right now your son needs you and all the love you can give.
I admire you for being able to care for your family the way you have. Not everyone can do what you have done, moving to another state, settling in, an absent hubby due to military duties, and caring for the children. Not to mention taking care of yourself and your weight loss.
Your doing well! Take it one day at a time, just like you have done with your wls. Deal with things as they come. Your doing fine! If you need to vent further, go for it. Where here for you, we listen, and we care.
Blessings -
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Baron Patrick
It Ain't Over Till I Say It's Over-And I Won! 
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