Macy

ALthough I had my hubby nearbye for the first week, which was great, I can't say that there wasn't anything I couldn't do. ( Didn't need to shop or anything, didn't have any babies or tots to lift). My only real "need" was that I had a drain, and it grossed me out, so he emptied it for me. I think it was in for 5 days. It did not hurt or anything, it just creeped me out to look at it. My hubby is a fire captain, so he has no problem with that. Otherwise, I was fine on my own.

You need to trust your gut. If you feel more comfy having someone near, than you should ask for that assistance.

FYI, I had an uneventful lap GB, so I had no open incision or hernia issues. THose would require more assistance, everyone is different. I slept in my own bed from the get go, and had no real pain issues except if I overate.

Best of luck to you on your brave journey.

M

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Macy

Roux-N-Y Lap 4/2002 Dr Ellner-the best!!!!!
132 lbs