I'm curious as to what exactly you're feeling guilty about? Is it the cost of surgery or maybe feelings of vanity?
Do your parents really need to know if you decide to have this done? Or are you concerned it will get back to them from someone else?
I think you should go for it if it's something you desire. You have the money in savings so it sounds like it won't cause any financial hardships for you and your boys. I say go for it!
You
do know you'll have to provide pictures of the 'results' if you decide to have the surgery, don't you? Feel free to email them to me if you don't want to post them here!
