Hi Brenda,
That is a tough one. My ex-husband was a drug user and I can tell you I had a rough 7 years of marriage. It is very hard to change what a person is thinking while they are under the influence of drugs. No matter how much you love them and would like for them to change, they have to want to change. A person who uses drugs almost always denies it. I feel for you. I wish I had a solution for you, but mine was to leave my ex and make my environment a healthy and positive one. Good luck and I hope I don't sound harsh.
Take care and much luck.
Dale
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239/ 103/125 below Goal fluctuating between 108-115
BMI 18.8~Dr. C is ok with my weight...yeah
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